Question : Loneliness! What kind of paradoxical thoughts does it cause?

Question : Loneliness! What kind of paradoxical thoughts does it cause?

Answer: 

Loneliness. It can cause various confusions and distorted thoughts in the minds of children.

In the future those thoughts will create reactions in them in various ways. It will also make a big difference in their character.

When both parents go to work it is inevitable that they will leave their children with someone and be isolated. Putting children in solitary confinement and waiting all day for someone or something when they want to enjoy everything the world wants them to do can cause them great distress.

Research by UNICEF in collaboration with the World Child Welfare Organization has revealed that many children around the world are lonely. The study also points out that most parents think that ‘children will grow up even if they are only provided with good food, good clothes and necessary facilities’. It is wrong for parents to think that way.

Child development is about the mind. Children grow up based on a healthy mind. Only when children's minds are clear will good thoughts develop in them. Only good thinking can lead to good deeds.

The first reason children are left alone is that both parents go to work. It is necessary to earn for the needs of the family. But more than that, it is important to take care of the children without loneliness. Leave the children to those in charge. Leaving people irresponsible can lead to a variety of problems, including sexual violence.

Parental divorce is also a factor in the loneliness of children. Parents preparing for divorce should realize that their division will create loneliness for the child. We need to think about how cruel children’s loneliness is from a child’s standpoint.

Children do not understand what divorce is. Divorcees throw away their relationship with their partner at some speed. Children cannot throw away their relationships like that. Therefore, those who decide to divorce on the basis of urgency should think about the future of their children. Only children raised by parents with a healthy relationship environment will grow up to have a healthy mindset.

There is one more thing to note here. The feeling of loneliness is not caused by loneliness alone. Some children will feel lonely even if they are standing in the middle of a thousand people. Those children will feel safe only if they have loving relationships with them. Otherwise they will feel lonely no matter how many people are around them.

Children who suffer from loneliness are also educationally backward. Inferior people give birth to inferior offspring and, thus, propagate their inferiority. Talents are paralyzed within themselves. It is difficult to find children with such inferiority complex. Unable to detect, the baby will grow humble. When another child comes into a home where there is only one child, the first child often feels lonely. The feeling of loneliness is due to the fear that those who loved her will love the new baby and ignore her. Some women get married and have no children for many years. When they adopt and raise a child, they become pregnant and give birth to another child. Such loneliness crisis affects the first child in such moments.